RELATIONSHIP v/s MONEY-A QUESTION?

Questions are made to be solved. They hook only on some criteria that is not understood by the couple, or any one of them try it to ignore...Though heated exchanges/arguments are common atleast once or twice in a fortnight. And it is not an unknown fact with relations or neighbours...Actually, they are temporary disagreements and more easily solved with an apology.

2. There are some matters which keep both's fists hot and that is money. The question comes when both have different goals. They concern home, children, tours/travels, personal expenses, where one partner wishes to keep more on hand, relations, loans(house,cars etc)...If anyone is sincere--generally it may be woman--do not try to make it a central issue....Because the earnings may differ from one person to another...may be sometimes this the cause of ego. Here the one person who is earning less may spend less and feels that he/she does not have control over money...The other earning more may feel to have some control over the expenses or the incoming money of anyone...To avoid such attitudes, set a budget for the both of you and make sure that every one of u have access to holiday cash.

3. Keep 'self' away from finance...do not try to equalise your financial worth with self-worth. T time comes when holiday money aggravates the thinking of one partner and here men tend to look at life like a horse's race. though both are aware that they are sitting on a nice fat wallet. However when heated exchanges arise, it helps if a woman expressesher appreciation of the value he is already bringing to the relationship, apart from salary....The male partner shd also think that the money plays a single part in both's life and that is the important factor. Your sympathy is the pillar in your relationship not just the full wallet. Actually these are not money problems but psychological ones, i.e. fear, power, insecurity etc...This is more important how to conquer them first, then take the cash in hand and solve with one another's requirements most gentlemanly.