IDLE OR LAZY--TWO SIDES OF A COIN(ADDICTISM).

WORK IS WORSHIP IS an old adage....and by virtue of his habits/upbringing, every human being performs his tasks.....i do not say ''DUTY''..duty will involve responsibility......but the persons with different tasks feel themselves as though they are born to rule......Rule means --Rule the TIME---which is crucial for someone and which is against their habit .....they feel, they got the life to enjoy......eating good, dressing good, roaming good, but totally against doing any tasks....or even they feel it against their nature to keep e.g. the glass of water from one place to another.

i had a friend, now settled somewhere, who had the habit of going to market or other assignments, when asked by his wife......he will go....money in pocket..bag in hand and roaming on roads and feeling ''going for some job was against his nature or even insult to his personality''.....rather he will feel it easy to stand on the way or in front of some shop and talk nonsensically to the persons who knew him....and after some time he will return home and tell his wife that ''it is not my job, dear, u send some other fellow or Rakesh (his son), or better u go yourself.....u can do market better''......what his wife will say....only to hit her head......one thing is punctuality, they will observe and they enter the kitchen at right time...such people cannot bear hunger, rather ready to bear the abuses others shower on them......they feel proudy in that.....they talk about work as ''work is not worship but work IS HERSHIP''' meaning their wives......

one fellow i notice, whole day sits on his bike which he takes out in the morning and rests whole day on it, looking all ways as all the four corners of earth are in his pocket.....his father has to pay for his breakfast,lunch and dinners......the fellow(father)is so meek, u cannot imagine, but still two-three abuses daily he keeps reserve for his LAZY son......there are several examples, i can narrate.......but lest my reader be an idle person, i keep them reserved for some other time.........cool22@microsoft.com..........

SPITTING ADDICT

AS is said that habit is the second nature of man.....and the man is so engulged in that habit that it seems, nay quite impossible to come out of it, despite his New Year resolutions or swearing before his wife, relative,friend all go in vain.......there is one great habit of Indians including women to chew the betal nut (Paan) all the way, day and night.....that is alright, this is their habit & let them chew. but the worst thing is that they spit the juice/saliva of it on the roads, corners of houses and wherever they are sitting standing outside, they will spit and go on talking/working,and low class women too spit in public places. And there is a permanent corner beside the PAAN SHOP for spitting and throughout the day it is becoming red and brown. and making the place nasty/dirty.....as u wish u can add ur adjective......but they will not change, and the saliva will be coming out from both corners of their lips, and they will talk with their mouth full of PAAN, keeping their mouth high, as though they may not emit drops of red on other persons clothes.....a fun to look at....

SEEING this conditions of RAILWAY PLATFORMS with different PAINTINGS BY MOUTH, the then Railway Minister got approved a bill from the parliament to save the platforms and keep them clean otherwise there was provision for punishment.......so it was reduced on the platforms but outside platforms there is no LAW to prohibit them. and u will find red/brown spot anywhere in the town.....i do not know of other countries, but in India it is very much prevalent. While going to office, outside, catching a bus, resting in home, sitting on shops,in office, boarding trains etc their mouth will be full and like buffalow they will eat it up slowly and slowly taking full interest/benefit of their money. Lord firbid.

FINGER IN MOUTH

IF u remember ur childhood u may have gone through this very bad habit.......always keeping one or two fingers in mouth.....either cutting the nail or sucking.....and the saliva coming out.
Recently on X-mas day, we went to a friend....as usual they brought cake, sweets, chakli etc. ....while we were talking and taking small bites. ....the son of his tenent came and put his hand from mouth to the plate.....i scolded him, but in vain....he repeated 3-4 times....my friend also was silent because of relations or he did not want his mood off.......the boy was so obstinate that i felt bitter...but no use......this was his ADDICTION.......and on this addiction his mother or father also went rough but the boy was serious about his habit.......and he was beaten also but his adamancy astonished me.....WHY THEY DO NOT COME ROUND..... whose fault is this....naturally of parents...if they taught him in the beginning itself...he wud not have gone this much...disobeying others also. Lord forbid.

REBELLIOUSNESS OF ADOLESCENT.

WHILE entering adolescent, the children are aware of many things, their parents could not discover, particularly about the opposite sex, which affect their emotions to a great extent.
The loving parent desires to spare his child the anguish and errors of his own youth. But this is possible to only a limited degree. We cannot protect our children from the exigencies of their own lives and their own growth. ...LIFE START ANEW WITH EACH GENERATION, and life's lessons must be learnt anew by each person in his own way and through his own experience. An adolescent thus has to make many wrong decisions in order to learn of self and opposite sex. If allowed to do this in minor situations (what to wear casually, when to return home), more important demonstrations of rebelliousness may be avoided, and smoothen his life to some extent.