Friday, October 22, 2010

FEAR TO COPE


Fear is an inborn instinct in any gendre, particulars in tender gender.
To take u to the fear are ur eyes and ur ears. They conduct on the paths u never try to tread upon. Also it is more psychological than real. At the time of Sino-India war, Pak-India wars, the natural phehomina was of fear--that may be fear for survival. Pakistan tried to disrupt the normal human life and disturb the functioning of the Govt. in the form of wars/infiltration by terrorists. That is a different thing that every time India came more strong.However, there is no denying of the fact that the soldiers become victim of depression and utmost require help from headquarters. Otherwise, sleeplessness, dreams of enemy, mental tension, stomach-ache,indigestion, worry, muscle tension, heartache etc may be the result. And besides sending them to the war-field, they have to be hospitalised......next

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Friday, October 8, 2010

LACKS CONFIDENCE?


This animal fills many with confidence, as he moves along in jungle without fear. Fear begets cowardness. I do not say that all people are having the tiger's confidence or as coward as a rat, though rat shows its confidence in dark corner of a house or shop or may be godown. Here my point is for the humans who roam, bother, curse, lie, fear,and otherwise have all negative emotions. Here i wud not say that all negative emotions are despicable...they have their own place in life but here they are not to be negotiated.
2. Buildng confidence helps to pull the chain of life. For example, i have noticed children, who are encouraged to participate in class/school competitions, but many of them are inhibited and just refuse to fill the application form for such competitions. One thing I will add here, that they are constrained by their introvert nature too. They feel shy? Why? One part is that they have been never encouraged for the good work done by them. Second part is the parent's negligence. They themselves do not want to share the happiness of their child. This makes to step the child back, not like the Tiger or even Cat who is more cautious since it is in homes, but the confidence of movement can be seen in her eyes. Building confidence is easy and I say four words ''DARE'' and all inhibitions of cowardliness will be dried down. Always remember tiger or lion, not the rat, when u wish to dare.

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