FRIENDSHIP BOND AND MARR......

IS it the marriage that breaks the friendship and love between the two adults, knowing each other for a short time or for a long time?....Friendship, Love, Marriage are bonds, very much visible or known in the society. Does marriage breaks friendship or love? Though marriage is a stronger bond, which can sustain, both friendship and love, if the couples are well understanding. Or, shd the two friends, or colleagues having love enter into the bond of Marriage. Or any one amongst these is attracted to any other side and having a fake relationship or love affair? What will last long? A question hovers in the air when both meet.

2. There may be an apprehension, that a boy and a girl can never be friends becoz one or the other day, the love enters their life and which may lead to marriage. Next perhaps the marriage may be the damaging factor, leading ending of friendship and/or love....However, this may not be true in a larger sense. There may be scarce examples, because of the jobs, careers, more in the metro cities.In bigger parts of India, the friendship and love in the boys and girls may not last long and they may be tied to the age old arranged marriages...In few cases, the parents may be liberal and they may face the society. In metros and bigger towns, the cases may happen, but because of fast and busy life, people try to ignore the relations amongst friends and relations.

3. The newspapers and magazines write the facts with few examples of cities and towns just to make a news....Recently Sania Mirza broke up her engagement with her half a decade friend, mainly because of her future career. One hundred twenty crores Indians and one Sania Mirza, or few hundreds like her cannot represent the whole society, which is different from state to state.

4. Javed Akhtar, poet,lyricist of repute said about his marriage to Shabana Azmi in a different note that their friendship is so strong that not even their marriage cud ruin it....however they acknowledge that it is not easy to get married to a friend....the boy and the girl may think that they know each other well or might believe that a strong bond exists between them, but a legal or a social binding can spoil it all.......to continue