SILENCE....PL KEEP QUIET.

From the picture, I can feel that though flowers are not creatures, but they speak more, and when u watch them, the feeling of joy simply fills your heart.

-We have daily dialogues with family, friends, but u cannot imagine when you get irritated or when you feel cheerful while exchanging the tounge....Cheerful is a word which gives you energy and freshness in body and brain. Therefore your face glows and you have a lasting impression on the person you are/were talking.

-Have you ever thought that talking to someone can get you irritation and that you just do not feel, but experience disgust....Oh my God, whom I am talking to? If it is your spouse, your brother, sister, any relation, may be friends. And during exchanging words, you just cannot feel when the irritation entered into your mind, may be hurt by person concerned or by the remark/opinion he/she gave. That upset you...Wait and think...why I am talking much on irritation, not on cheerfulness. Yes the 'irritation' is a negative feeling, affecting your personality adversely. That sets your mood off. Cheerfulness is a positive attitude, and positive thinking/talking gives you a healthy feeling.

-You cannot stop getting irritated since the reaction of mind goes with both the feelings. The things hurt you cannot make you a loveable personality. Do not vomit. Keep a healthy stomach...this is the way to positive thinking by adopting the simple method of keeping mind in 'silent' mode for few minutes, throwing out your anger or adverse feeling away, calming down your blood pressure....I am not a psychologist or a doctor, but just as you and learnt a lot that the 'silence' pays. When you calm down, you will feel the blood has left its rooms in the brain and went down to fill the gap in other parts of your body....Here you learnt the lesson, keeping mind empty....no brooding, no thinking...Second is just retire from the place for a while....There are no words in the air, just the SILENCE ruling, giving you another opportunity to make you ready to face the person with more positive attitude...just a feeling of relaxation...And you have won. ..No foes, no encounters, no divorces...But a face full of glow, the joy, the pleasure, the delight. All greenery of nature around you..All thorns have melted down into the earth. It is not a second life but the same as you live with an open heart....THE BEST THINGS HAPPEN NOW.

REPENT---'SORRY'

GENERALLY THE MEETING PLACE OF BOYS AND GIRLS is their school or college...The newbie that is the first year student has to get mocked by one way or the other...I do not use the word 'ragging'...Since from early days itself I detested this practice, since it has spoilt many good careers or the sufferer had to leave this mortal world....It is not love but infatuation  both the genders feel towards one another while in studies...Though some may claim it 'love'....Do they depart or get married/finish studies/get approval of parents or society...Yes society because in smaller towns or villages, any of the boys or girls who claim 'just' love will get it difficult to get out of their house...Coz, there are comments, the boy may but the girl may not be able to bear...However there are instances when one girl starts liking a boy...the guy may be a simple one as in this case.

2) The girl has got infatuation towards the boy...She will comment on him, sometimes alone or sometimes with friends...The boy never answered. The girl belonged to a well to do family....One  day she came to know that the intelligent boy had lost his father and her mother with her hards efforts cud be able to get him admitted in a good college, as she wanted him to be an IAS. The girl felt nervous and could not come to college for some days. The boy was as usual busy in his studies. She wanted to say sorry to him, but could not gather enough courage....The year passed and in the next session he joined a better college...The girl still feels guilty and have his phone number but fails to come up to say 'sorry' or get an excuse for her taunts.----Yea, we sometimes find it difficult to feel about the consequences for our tender feelings which however may never be revealed..This is the guilt of the age or sometimes of the ego, which prevents just to say a five word 'sorry', and have the heart pinched when the memory checks in....My advice for the tender feelings:

Phoolon ko yun mat todo, Jeevan se naata jodo;

Dil hai ke bhale na maane, ise chahe jidhar mat modo.